Work versus Hobbies

Work today is so stressful. Even if you have a job,
the work is almost pushing you to the walls.

Many organizations are reducing budget
on the staffs hiring. Thus there are little resources
to do the pile of jobs.

- Are you grueling at your 9-5 job ?
- Are you facing tons of unfinished backlogs?
- What about facing an unreasonable boss that
keeps nagging at you

If there is any error in the task, boss will nagging at you, give you deadline to finish your assignment. While you are trying to excel in your work and yet your boss says this is your basic requirement to fulfill the job. ….OMG

After being employed for so long, I want to tell my friends that I am getting tired to work for people. It does not pay to work so hard and yet your effort is unappreciated. I would rather work for something and yet pays me well like my hobbies, things I like.

At least it provides me a route to excel in my work. If I can excel in my hobbies, like communication. I can become a consultant and share my experience with other. Wont it be great that I can get paid if I am doing through my hobbies.

What do you think? Leave your feedback and comment.

Conference Communication

I had been doing project communication all along when I was working in the IT industry.
This time, it happened to be in one of the conference call communication.

Background:

The conference call needs to be conducted at

• 11pm Singapore time, 4pm UK time and 8.30pm in Bangalore
• 1 conference involving 3 different time zone parties

Although the call was about the execution of some changes required to execute to implement a tweak in the production system.

Most cases, people were eager and more tolerable to the conference call due to time difference, different culture. The participants were patient and know what to execute.

However, in some instances, some attendees are waiting to pin you down in the call.

Recently, I supposed to open the conference bridge with the above details, one of the UK technical folk came to the call and left for other business.
This caused the bridge to be disconnected. I was not aware then.

Then the 3rd caller from Bangalore dialed in and was not able to get connected to the conference bridge. He was patient enough to wait for the moderator to dial and open the bridge.

Once the whole business execution was done, the conference call ended.

This Indian technical folk lodged a complaint to his superior and
mentioned that the moderator (Project Manager) was not around when the execution took place.

I was reprimanded seriously for not attending the call.

Lesson Learned:

Be more attentive to little details
Just render a reason why the call was not setup. Is it because of the reception or is the conference bridge got disconnected for some reasons.

Be more sensitive to different culture

Some culture respects punctuality. Some respects patient.

Thus a project manager needs to be fully armoured and sensitive in such cases.

Although the lessons learned above were simple and logical,
however, there were always times that you will miss during physical execution.

Before Your Job Interview:
• Learn all you can about the company or organization; learn as much as you can so that your questions are sophisticated and knowledgeable during the interview. Employers expect you to arrive knowing background information about the organization. If you don’t, you look like you’re not really interested in the job. You have to be able to answer the critical question of why you would like to work for that employer — and not sound like you would take any job. Research helps you formulate intelligent and appropriate questions to ask in your interview.

• Be prepared to answer and ask questions. (see our sample questions)

• Prepare your clothes for your interview, making sure they are business-like, clean, pressed and conservative; make sure your hair and nails trimmed and clean. Your attire should be noticed as being appropriate and well-fitting, but it should not take center stage. When in doubt, always dress more professionally rather than more casually. Dressing nicely and appropriately is a compliment to the person you meet, so if in doubt, err on the side of dressing better than you might need to. A two-piece matched suit is always the best choice for both men and women, in navy, gray or black.

• Prepare papers for your interview, including extra copies of your resume, job reference lists, reference letters, legal pad for taking notes, and any other information that you may wish to have with you.

During Your Job Interview:
• Arrive 10 to 15 minutes early. Don’t take any chances that you might be even one minute late. If necessary, arrive 30 minutes early and wait in your car.

• Treat all people you encounter with professionalism and kindness. That receptionist or secretary or maintenance man may offer his or her opinion of you to the boss. It will count.

• Don’t let the employer’s casual approach cause you to drop your manners or professionalism. You should maintain a professional image. Don’t address the interviewer by his or her first name unless you are invited to.

• Don’t chew gum or smell like smoke. Don’t take cell phone calls during an interview. If you carry a cell phone, turn it off during the interview to be sure it doesn’t ring.

• Don’t ever interrupt the interviewer, even if you are anxious and enthusiastic about answering the question.

• Be aware of your non-verbal behaviors – sit straight, smile as often as you can, maintain eye contact but don’t stare the interviewer down, lean forward but not invading the interviewer’s space. Sit still in your seat; avoid fidgeting and slouching.

• Don’t be shy or self-effacing. You want to be enthusiastic, confident and energetic, but not aggressive, pushy or egotistic. That fine line is important. If you find yourself trying to hard to sell yourself, you are probably crossing the line. Instead, pull back, be confident and reassuring and calm.

• Don’t make negative comments about previous employers or professors (or others).

• Listen very carefully to each question you are asked and give thoughtful, to-the-point and honest answers. Ask for clarification if you don’t understand a question. It is OK to take a few moments of silence to gather your thoughts before answering. Try not to “beat around the bush” or take a long time to give the answer the interviewer is seeking.

• Make sure you understand the employer’s next step in the hiring process; know when and from whom you should expect to hear next. Know what action you are expected to take next, if any. Always thank the interviewer for his or her time at the close of the interview and establish a follow-up plan.

• When the interviewer concludes the interview, offer a firm handshake and make eye contact. Depart gracefully.

After the Interview:
• After the interview, make notes right away so you don’t forget critical details.

• If you are working with a search firm or recruiter, call that recruiter immediately while the facts of the interview are fresh on your mind. The recruiter will want to know what you thought went well and what you may have concerns about.

• Always send a thank you letter to the interviewer immediately. If there were several people that interviewed you, send them each a thank you note. It is good to keep the letter short but to also reiterate your interest in the position and your confidence in your qualifications.

• Don’t call the employer back immediately. If the employer said they would have a decision in a week, it is OK to call them in a week, again to thank them for the interview and reiterate your interest.

• If you receive word that another candidate was chosen, you may also send a follow-up letter to that employer, again thanking him or her for the opportunity to interview for the position. Let them know that should another or similar position open in the future, you would love to have the opportunity to interview again.

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Boost Your Communication Skills

Developing good communications skills is important, so that we convey our messages clearly and prevent any misunderstanding. When we have communication breakdowns at work, we spend time and energy trying to make amends. It is hard for anyone to admit that their unclear communication caused the breakdown, and thus apologize. It’s wiser to make a conscious effort to prevent communication breakdowns instead.

One way to avoid conflicts at work is to communicate clearly and frequently with your colleagues on the following:

• what you are currently doing for the company
• what are some goals you are striving for at work, and even some of your personal ones that may affect work
• some of the difficulties you are facing with customers, management, colleagues etc (without sounding like you are whining and complaining)

With the increased use of e-mails and text messages, we may forget the value of face-to-face interactions. When we communicate with a person face-to-face, we can build trust and open-ness with our verbal and non-verbal cues. We can also sense and understand the other person’s point of view and what they feel.
Use e-mails if you have specific requests or updates for a colleague, and the message can be read at their convenience. With e-mails, you can still sound cordial, instead of distance. Just a few more seconds of typing some niceties like “Have a great day!” can bring a feeling of goodwill to the reader.

At work today we tend to communicate more via e-mail and this has an impact on our interpersonal communication. For example, if you communicate your unhappiness or anger via email, pause a moment before you hit the ‘Send’ button! Cool down, review what you have written, and edit it so that it sounds more objective. Stick to the facts and avoid character attacks. Be objective and constructive. If you are criticizing something, offer a solution to improve the situation, if possible.

As you learn to communicate more effectively at work, you will be better able to achieve your goals, garner more support during setbacks, and feel much happier at work.

Communication is an art of conveying message to the other party. Imagine in the game of “Pass it on”. One has to convey the hidden message that he received to another party without uttering a word. Similarly, an email message can only convey the content over but not the emotions.

A face-to face communication is crucial. In some books, there are some eye assessing cues that tell us the eye can indicate the truth being said by the party.

In fact, 55% of the communication is actually done through visual communication. 38% is done through vocal communication. The remaining 7% will be through verbal communication. This clearly indicates that the body language – a combination of visual & verbal gives a very high percentage while communicating with one another.

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Good Friday is approaching

I will be managing a project.
The project is to manage the smooth execution of a mega contest.

Wish the team will make it a success and will keep the readers posted.

WestWood SS SL Campfire 09

Having helped out the school camp. Here is the video to the campfire opening.

(If you are having problem playing the video, click pause and wait for the video to load)

New Beginning

February is kind of a new beginning for me. I am going to work doubly hard from this time on.
I will be exploring some new gadgets that has not been in my chapter of life before.
I am creating it new !! Please support my products after its creation.

Will inform you in due course.

Congratulation to Obama

Just seen the inauguration of President Obama the last 7 hours.
It is awesome. Many people, in the world, are celebrating his arrival to the new era.

Many people are expecting a ‘Change’ from him. Hoping he can help to shed some lights to the finance crisis.

When is Financial Crisis recovering

The current financial crisis is hitting many people around the world.

Many people are out of job because of the companies closure and downsizing or another good term they commonly use – restructuring, organization re-alignment.

Those who are affected by the crisis are now having severe stress in how to make ends meet.
Some people will have families to feed, loans to pay, bills to clear. Mountains of unsaid sorrows start to pour out.

Are you affected? If you are, look no more. Start to go for training now.. Go to the nearest library and grab hold of some books and start to upgrade yourself. Learn and master the skill in the shortest time possible. Hoping the new learned skill will bring you some kind of new opportunities to survive in the next few months.

I will be giving a free talk on the topic of “Work Today, Gone Tomorrow”
Date: 18 Dec 2008
Time: 4.30pm – 5.30pm
Place: Golden Landmark Hotel, Singapore
Address: 390 Victoria Street, #01-15 Golden Landmark Shopping Centre

Hope I can see you there and lets have some interactive fun to walk thru this time.


You’d better watch out
You’d better not cry
You’d better keep cash
I’m telling you why:
Recession is coming to town!
It’s hitting you once,
It’s hitting you twice
It doesn’t care if you’re careful or nice
Recession is coming to town!
It’s worthless if you’ve got Shares
It’s worthless if you’ve got Bonds
It’s safe when you’ve got Cash In Hand
So keep Cash for Goodness Sake, HEY
You’d better watch out
You’d better not cry
You’d better keep Cash
I’m telling you why:
Recession is coming to town!
High Notes are just confusing
Minibonds are just so vague
The Banks all make YOU bear the RISK
So keep out for Goodness Sake, OH
You’d better watch out
You’d better not cry
You’d better keep Gold
I’m telling you why:
Depression is just down the line!!

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